Finding the Joy in life
When I was 18yrs old, I was in a dark head space. The reasons I have long forgotten but I do know what got me out of it. My mum. She sat me down and said “I know things are hard sometimes, but sometimes you just gotta focus on the good bits of life”. Being a fairly melodramatic teenager, I sobbed, “There are No good Bits”. My mother, who had the patience of a saint, just sighed and said, “there are always good bits. Small wonders, if you know where to look”
She made me sit with her and make a list of things that I would find joy in. Over the years I have added to list, but here is what I have so far. Please send me anything else you can think of. Some of these things make you feel very silly when you do them, but they are often the best medicine for the soul.
Looking for pictures in the clouds
Talk to a stranger
Put googly eyes on things (pictures below)
Skip. Preferably in public
Rewatch a great movie from your youth
Draw with fat crayons,
Pretend you're a pirate for a day
Dance outrageously.
Wear more hats
Stick fluffy eyebrows onto your glasses
surprise your pet
If you see a child having a “paddy”, join them
Turn your favourite music on and sing!
Ministry of funny walks in a busy street.
(Video below
Wear Silk gloves to work
Call a old friend
Compliment a stranger
Lay on the grass and look up into the trees
make bubble bath monsters
look for leaf skeletons
Make a blanket fort
Do some drumming